Before the wedding, there will be a rehearsal dinner 5:30-7 on Friday, for family and a small number of
invited guests. People who are attending the rehearsal dinner are welcome to arrive at the venue
as early as 4pm for casual hanging out and getting settled in.
Friday
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6pm: Bus departs from Berkeley (Milvia Street Parking, 2109 Milvia
St, Berkeley, CA 94704)
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7:30pm: Bus and other guests arrive at Triple S
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7:30pm on (music ends at 10pm and unfortunately the venue asks
offsite guests to leave at 10:30pm): Pie + love party in the
Vintner’s Barn
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Get settled in, and have pie, snacks, and drinks (light dinner options will be available). We may ask you
to generate and share (anonymously or otherwise) your edgy hot
takes about love and romance.
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Dress nice-casual
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Bring layers if you may want to hang out outside
Saturday:
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8:30-9:30: Light breakfast on the dining patio
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11:30am - 3:00pm: pool party + drinks, 11:30am - 12:30pm poolside
lunch:
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Dress for a pool party! Bathing suits, light shirts and dresses,
sarongs, sandals, etc.
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4:30 - 5pm: Drinks served
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5-5:30pm: Wedding ceremony under the big tree
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Buck and Claire will be married by our officiant and close
friend, Ajeya Cotra
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Dress code for the ceremony and the rest of the night is the
intersection of sacred and festive; if you’re at a loss, go
with garden-party vibes — think dresses of any
length, button-up shirts (jackets optional) and pants. Extra
credit for glitter, flowy dresses and skirts, sunset and metallic
colors, and lots of jewelry. Remember that it might be warm (e.g.
in the 80s). See here for a Pinterest board demonstrating this aesthetic.
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(If you aren’t staying on-site, we recommend you bring
extra layers in case you want to hang out outside after it gets
dark)
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5:30-6:30pm: Cocktail hour on the upper dining patio
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6:30-8pm: Dinner and toasts outdoors on the dining patio
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8:15-10pm: Dancing and cake in the Vintner’s Barn,
accompanied by Buck’s band, the Had Matters (named for the
hipster hat factory they normally perform in).
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10:15pm - 12:15am: more music and dancing in the Distillery Barn
(or stay in the Vintner's Barn for quiet hanging out, but music
has to go off). Music ends at 12:15am, and the venue asks offsite
guests to leave, but quiet hanging out can continue for onsite
guests.
Sunday:
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9:30-11:30: Brunch (grab when you want).
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Dress however you want — we’ll probably go with
hangover pajamas.
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Please get your stuff out of your room or glamping tent by 11am.
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Noon: Wedding weekend concludes and bus departs for Berkeley
(Milvia Street Parking, 2109 Milvia St, Berkeley, CA 94704).
All food at the wedding will be vegetarian or bivalves, with vegan
options